ALOHA!  Rather than looking for love and peace in all the wrong places, why not give the Lord Jesus Christ a try?  

ISAIAH 55:11 - 

"So shall My Word be that goes forth out of My mouth: it shall not return unto Me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it." 

You've tried the rest, now try the VERY BEST!                                                   

"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end of blessing!"  Then shall ye call upon Me, and ye shall go and pray unto Me, and I will listen unto you.  And ye shall seek Me, and find Me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart.  And I will be found of you!"  JEREMIAH 29:11-14

"Then, said the LORD unto me, "Thou has well seen: for I will hasten My Word to perform it!"  JEREMIAH 1:12